My middle child goes back to school next Tuesday. We have been homeschooling her for the first half of her kindergarten year because of the uncertainties around Covid19. This far in and it looks like schools really aren’t a hell hole of infections and death so The Wife and I feel a bit more comfortable with her going to an honest to goodness classroom and being around other people.
Also, she has been driving us certifiably batshit and I am woefully incapable of making sure she gets everything she needs out of the distance learning option our school put together.
And her lack of everything is entirely on my shoulders. Between her and her 10 month old brother the past few months have been a daily description of how I have been measured up to what is needed and exactly how short I have come to meeting it.
I have been trying to carve out time for myself to start writing again. For awhile my time was the 45 minutes or so I had sitting in the car at my daughter’s dance studio (that sounds so…upper class. She takes dance lessons in the way so many little girls take dance lessons, it’s not exactly some high end place in NYC but it’s nice and adorable and wonderful)(so, maybe not a “studio” but a different word that feels appropriate is escaping me right now). But that got eaten into by other priorities, mostly christmas shopping.
Trying to carve this time out at home has been…difficult. It’s just so damn loud and distracting. If The Wife is around I just want to spend time with her. If my daughter is around she just wants to spend time with me. If the 10 month old is awake it is demanding everyone spend time with him. With everyone comes their associated noises. Computers. Tablets. Video game systems. Various loudly colored toys with loudly noise making buttons and lights that flash different colors in accordance with different buttons and sounds.
My day didn’t “end” until 1120 tonight. That’s when I finished hanging the clothes that can’t go through the clothes drier and at this point I’m just done. I don’t know how people do it. I’ve been surrounded by everyone’s noise and errands for 15-16 hours today and I can’t really think straight enough to do anything else now. I just misspelled “else” three times. Just burned out.